Don’t look for me if you get married
Gender: MaleAge: 30 years old Occupation: Teachers do n’t know how much love and love are relative, anyway, she has gone so far in my heart that I ca n’t make a girlfriend again.
But when she found me again after marriage, although she accepted her happily, afterwards, she still felt that she had helped her to betray her husband. For the man, I was still a bit unbearable.
When we first met, we stuck to knowing her. I was 29 years old and taught Chinese at a middle school in Wuchang.
I have been single and I have been high and low, my girlfriend changed and I changed, and my parents were anxious for my marriage.
I know my parents have good intentions.
My two younger sisters are married and married, and it’s ridiculous that one of my bosses stays at home.
She met at the arrangement of my parents. The first time she met was in a cafe next to Linjiang Avenue in Wuchang.
I sat at the scheduled place and waited for her half an hour in advance.
She was late for an hour, I drank three cups of coffee and ran the toilet twice before she started calling out.
It was nice to see her at first sight.
When she sat down and looked at it carefully, she felt more and more that she raised her hand to cast her feet, and that temperament was really good.
She introduces herself as 25 years old, a sales lady, and enjoys reading novels and sports.
Then I kept asking about my work status, monthly salary, current deposit, and whether I would buy a house if I got married.
Her question made me embarrassed and disappointed. I felt she was peeling off my clothes one by one, but I still patiently answered her. I knew I was deeply attracted to her.
We talked from 8:30 to 10, and I didn’t know what to say later.
When we came out of the cafe, we went to a bar again. The lively atmosphere was something I had rarely experienced before. We drank a lot of wine, and she drunk more than I expected.
It was a little early in the morning when I was out of the bar and I was walking on a deserted street. I was going to take her home by car, but she refused to say her home location.
I had to take her to the cabin I rented, and we had a relationship in the cabin.
She didn’t contact her when she met on a few boats. I have been busy preparing the course awards and did not call her.
One day after a month, she suddenly called and asked me what I was busy with and why I never kept the phone.
I was pleasantly surprised to receive her call, and I reported to her recently all sorts of things.
Before I finished speaking, she went straight to the subject: it is not convenient to go to you.
I froze at that time, then smiled indiscriminately: Of course it is convenient.
That night she went to me to spend the night again and woke up the next morning. She told me that her parents had introduced her to a doctor and met next Friday.
After listening for a long time, she said to herself, that the doctor is said to be ready to buy a house in Hankou, and he is an expert in a hospital department.
I lighted a cigarette and remained silent.
When she got up and dressed, I suddenly reminded her not to be late when going.
I didn’t know what I was thinking at the time. I thought I liked her, but I was a little angry. What did she tell me about this?
What is our relationship?
Later, for about half a year, she often came to the house I rented, and occasionally bought some household kitchen and bathroom supplies to help me dress up the cottage.
I also often buy seasonal fruits and vegetables to make me a delicious meal.
Her culinary skills are impeccable, which allows me who often send instant noodles to enjoy a meal that I can enjoy without going back to my parents’ home.
So when I walked into the alleyway home, I had an inexplicable excitement, hoping to see the window of the cabin open from below the street, so that I knew she was waiting for me in the room.
Those days must have been wonderful. Although I often heard her say that she was busy meeting with whom, and with whom, I knew the wind, and I always felt that such things were far away from me and almost nothing to do with me.
I greedily enjoyed every meal she cooked and every time I sang on the bed, I didn’t want to be in the future, just in front of my eyes.
She finally married a rich man and finally on the day I celebrated my thirtieth birthday, she solemnly told me that she was going to get married.
I just swallowed the red crispy chicken steak that she made, and I didn’t respond for a long time with my throat in my throat.
She went on to herself, as if saying something had nothing to do with herself.This object met only three months ago. All generations are lawyers. Just 30 years old. Because he had only one son in the family and forced him to get married soon, he asked her to marry him yesterday.
She said that she agreed, because his parents gave him a small foreign house in the Donghu Development Zone, and they could live in as soon as they got married, and they were planning to buy a car the next year.
I finally swallowed the chicken chop, tried to squeeze a smile, and aimed to buy wine, toast to her old girl!
She was crying at the time. I felt very depressed, but still smiled slightly, and said that there was something to cry, there was a house and a car, and a good life was waiting in the future.
That day was the only time she came but it was not complete. Almost before the meal was finished, she took the bag and left, and the door was smashed into the mountains. I continued to sit and eat, and I didn’t even think of getting up and chasing.
Later, she invited me to a wedding. I went there and prepared a thousand yuan gift generously. I glanced at the bride and groom. The groom didn’t look good, but the bride was a beautiful thing!
After her marriage, my parents began to rush to help me find someone.
After marriage, she took the initiative to find me six months after her marriage. We didn’t contact again. Although I tried to call a few times, I couldn’t help it.
Later, I simply changed my mobile phone, changed my place to live, and started to make friends again, but I still couldn’t grow up every time.
She later contacted me, and when I answered the phone, I thought I heard it wrong.
She asked me calmly why I didn’t tell her when I changed places, and even changed the phone.
I joked that you are married and I don’t want to disturb you.
She didn’t speak for a long time, and then asked me how I was doing, whether she still ate instant noodles.
I looked at a new noodle 120 that I bought at home and lied to her that she didn’t have it, and now I cook all by myself.
She asked me again if I found the subject.
I said, where does anyone see it.
She smiled and said nothing, then hung up.
It never occurred to her that she came to my apartment that night and said it was to visit my new home. Although she had been mentally prepared, the mess in my house surprised her.
At that time she pulled me to the street and said that I could n’t do it. I had to buy something. We went back to Carrefour again. I bought a big car with a mop, tablecloths, napkins, clothes rack, etc. When I checked out, I said that I did n’t have enough money. SheHelp me add it, meanwhile pointing at my nose and ask me to pay back!
In the evening, she helped me clean up the house, cleaned the room, and was busy till twelve in the evening.
In the meantime, she answered a phone call from her husband and asked her where she was. She said that she was watching TV at home.
It turned out that her husband went to Beijing for a business trip, so she had time to come out and look for me.
That night she was sleeping with me on the pillow as before, as if nothing had happened.
She came to me every three forks, but often hurried home because of her husband’s questioning.
Later, I met a new girlfriend, and I advised her not to come again. She became furious when she knew that she had no conscience and was ungrateful, and then fell away.
After a month or two, she came to me again as usual, and I told her that my girlfriend and I were planning to get married, and she had a quarrel with me again. I was very sad when I saw her hoarse and exhausted.I want to ask her to divorce, I would marry her!
But then I swallowed it again. What should I marry her? I don’t even have my own house!
She never came back after that trouble, and my girlfriend and I soon broke up again. I do n’t know why. I do n’t think I can always stare at her. I can hardly make a girlfriend, becauseI always became a new girlfriend and contrasted with her, and then I did n’t even have any interest in continuing to communicate.
At the beginning of this year, I was transferred to another middle school, so I changed my apartment and phone number.
I hope she won’t come to me anymore so that I can completely forget her and start her life again.